Monday, April 15, 2013
M is for Mommy? Mommy? Mommy? Mommy?
Even now, if I had to choose titles, this is the one that would win.
There are times when I cannot hear the word Mommy one more time.
My own Mom used to tell us that she was going to change her name, and she wouldn't answer until we guessed correctly. We thought that was hilarious. But I get it now.
Today was one of those days when I wanted to change my name. I had several things come up that were demanding my attention. Lily was also demanding my attention. And the more stressed out I got, the more she called my name.
Mommy? Mommy? Mommy? Mommy?
I tried to answer her every time. But I was working on things with a deadline that required thought. And I was getting fatigued.
By about mid-day I was beyond fatigued. I could hardly keep my eyes open. I couldn't think straight. I could hardly keep it together. I cancelled our plans to go to the zoo. Not as punishment- she hadn't done anything to warrant that. But because I didn't have it in me. I couldn't pay any more attention to anything or anyone.
I came out of the bathroom in yoga pants and a tshirt.
"Mommy? We're not going to the zoo?"
I explained that we were not. That I was very, very sorry. But I just didn't feel well.
"Can I watch my new doggie movie?"
I couldn't believe my big girl was taking it so well. I told her that of course we would watch her new doggie movie. (Lady and the Tramp, in case you were wondering.)
"Mommy? I've been thinking about it. And.... maybe I want to go to the zoo."
I couldn't even answer her. I just looked at her blankly. I knew I had to be the grown-up. But I didn't have another "Mommy?" in me.
Then she laughed. "Oops. I said I wrong word! That's OK. I meant maybe I want to go to the mall. When Daddy gets home."
And I laughed too.
Today was not a good Mommy day for me. (More on that tomorrow) Which is probably why this post is so disjointed. Even now, Lily is demanding my attention. And I am having trouble finding the patience. I don't know why the doggie is eating breakfast. Because it's morning and he's hungry?
But I'm focusing on the fact that my little girl has a sense of humor about herself. She can realize she used a wrong word. That the wrong word will make Mommy and crazy, and she better change it to what she meant to say.
And even though I want to scream "STOP SAYING MOMMY! STOP ASKING ME QUESTIONS!" I'm focusing on the fact that Mommy is the best title I've ever had.